My Wedding Night: A Nervous Experience

I have been a virgin ever since I was born. In the recent past, I met a lady whom I asked out for a date. She gave into my charm and we began a journey towards marriage. I had never had an experience with ladies before, which makes me fairly shy at all times. In my culture, I could not even sit down with a lady for any discussion concerning matters of love. After some dating and such, my lady and I decided to be married. Fortunately, the much-awaited day is today. The day has been great and colorful. All went on successfully though I was very shy. I was happy for the day although I was also nervous about the marriage night.

It was my first night with her that evening and I felt very nervous. I did not know how to start anything with my lovely new wife. I did not even know how to be free with my wife. Earlier on, my wife to be had requested that we talk about expectations, to avoid coming together with different ideas in our life. Again, due to my culture, I did not really have an idea of what to talk of on our wedding night. She came into the room and found me resting on the bed.

My nervousness got me up to an extent that I could not even utter a word, but she helped me by talking and making me laugh. I never thought that she would treat me like this. I thanked God for having given me such a wonderful wife. On learning of her behavior, I became free with her. I released the tension I had and discussed the important issues about our future life. Because of her understanding and compassion I became less shy with her. She helped me to become the confident man I am today.

If it’s possible, discuss the honeymoon with your wife to be long before the wedding night. This will help you both to understand the expectations being placed upon you on that important day. Do not be afraid to discuss having kids and the birth control methods to use. You should be able to know your partner’s opinion on the number of kids to have. However, you should avoid having the discussion too soon to create opportunities for temptation. Moreover, talking about sex on the first night is important as it helps you to become naturally closer as a new couple.

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